Today a friend told me that one of her ex boyfriends came back to our country after living some years in USA. She said it’s a pity that he has “a beautiful skinny and tall man” and now he is “an ugly super obese man”. She knows I like obese people, and I don’t think she meant to offend, but I felt a bit bad that people still uses fat as synonymous of ugly or disgusting. I mean, I don’t feel sexually attracted to skinny people but I can say when a skinny man is handsome or a skinny woman is pretty. Why can’t it be the same for fatties? It’s ok not to feel attracted to a fat body, what is wrong is to say that someone is ugly because is fat. In my friend’s case, she used to like that man, meaning that for her he wasn’t ugly. Why can’t she just say that she doesn’t feel attracted to his new body type instead of saying that now he is disgusting? I feel a bit bad bc I know everyone has the same mindset 😔
There is only one way to change that… Show the world how sexy you can be with beeing fat and there is no reason to feel ashamed for and be hidden at home… Be proud, be your sexy self!!!